Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Just Say No?

HELP!!! So I have this problem where I can't say "No!" (No, not like that. Get your mind out of the gutter.) But seriously, after date 3 with the teacher and still nothing, I've decided it's not worth pursuing anymore. I thought my "run away when he tried to kiss me" move would maybe send him a hint. But no, he messaged me and wants to get together again. He has all sorts of plans for us! My usual tacit is to just ignore. But I feel like after 3 dates he deserves a little more than that. No? Fuck. What do I do?

On a totally seperate and side note, am I a bad person for not going out with a guy because he's too short? I'm sorry but 5'4" is not an acceptable man height!

4 comments:

  1. "Although I have enjoyed the opportunity to get to know you, ______, I'm not sure that we are compatible. Thank you for the opportunity, I wish you nothing but the best, _____."

    "Although I have embarked on this journey with an open heart and an open mind, I find myself in a place different than I imagined. I am not ready for a relationship or any efforts towards being in one and I will no longer be willing to meet or to take this further. Thank you for understanding, ___."

    "Ew. No."

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  2. Damn, those are good suggestions. Are you doing this via email or will you actually have to say something?

    Let's be honest. It's you. email, right?

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  3. Almost forgot. No, 5'4" is not an acceptable man height. But...he might be awesome and make up for it. It's one date. It's not like you're 5'9". You'll just never be able to wear heels again if you fall in love. And you'll have miniature children. Giving birth would hurt less, so that's a plus.

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  4. D's dumping suggestions are prefect, i vote go with #3. and 5'4" is a NO GO. L Lo is wrong, child birth will still hurt. another thing to consider, a man of small stature generally has ... parts ... that are proportionate to said small stature.

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